Monday, June 25, 2012

Boston

Well Boston has officially been added to one of my favorite cities. A successful guy's trip would be an understatement. The food is good, the beer is better, and the people have been super nice.

I set 2 goals for myself on this trip; 1) climb, mount, and conquer Paul Revere's statue & 2) meet, mount and conquer a natural redhead. On the first night I was here, Tim & I were able to check my first goal off my list. Last night I checked off the 2nd*.

Why the asterisk you ask?! Well allow me explain. I walk into this bar in North Boston because I have to piss real bad. Now I normally wouldn't frequent this type of bar because it's comparable to Loggia or Blu. Well after taking a leak, I walk over to the bar to get a beer. Within seconds this brunette is pointing at me and smiling. I wave. A moment later I'm being greeted by her naturally-ginger, freckled- skin friend. She asked me how tall I was and I replied appropriately. She was hooked. Her friends took a liking to mine, but her eyes never left mine. She asked me the same 4 questions about 17 times. What's your name? Where are you from? How old are you? What do you do? That's when I knew she either had short-term memory loss or he was extremely intoxicated. I remembered her name so she granted me a kiss. It was sloppy but I didn't care. If you know me and redheads, you understand. We made out at the bar for at least an hour. That's when she invited me back to her place to hang out. I thought about it LONG & HARD but decided against it for 2 reasons; 1) My friends had all separated and I didn't want to leave any behind & 2) I didn't have a condom. Something about sleeping with a girl I had just met who forgot my name the better half of 20 times didn't sit well with me. I let her and her friends go, and got her number just so she wouldn't feel totally rejected. All in all it was a fun night and did wonders for my ego.

My Boston trip was a success. Now time for Vegas.

Monday, June 18, 2012

It's not easy being green

It's funny how you can go 6 months without seeing someone and just when you finally think you're over it all, they reappear in front of you and fuck up your entire mindset without saying a word. I've been fighting the urge to text her for going on 2 weeks now. No, I don't have her number... I deleted that months ago, but it's seared into my memory. Usually memorizing numbers is a gift, but in this case it's my curse. After the lying & manipulation and head games she put me through... I still for some unbeknownst reason don't hate her. Maybe it's the fact that I've never met anyone else like her. I know I don't want to be with her. I know my friends don't want me to be with her. I am in desperate need of a distraction. Don't get me wrong, I live a busy, fun & happy life... But why am I still hung up on this chick? Maybe she's a witch. Maybe I'm just lonely. Maybe it's the sheer fact that it's been 6 months since I've been with a girl. Maybe it's one-itis because for over a year I didn't hate this girl and now all of the sudden I am supposed to. Does she feel the same way? Is her head a mess right now?! Do I care?! I've been single for 4 years now... Why do I feel like I just got out of a relationship. "Don't get emotionally attached." they said... But I don't function that way. My brain is wired to care, to nurture & to fall head over heels for the one I am intimate with. Don't get me wrong, right now I wouldn't turn down a little strange. I am still a man, and a very single one at that. I just wish I could get out of this funk I've been thrown into.

Maybe Boston will be the cure... See you in 4 days you Irish fucks!!


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